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Thursday, September 10, 2015
Sunday, August 23, 2015
Lost somewhere in Patagonia
I'm not a terribly outdoorsy person. I mean, I like sitting on my front porch, which is technically outdoors. I like hiking, as long as there aren't too many ups and downs, and there's something fun at the end, like a pastry shop or something.
So if I have heard of Patagonia, it probably means everyone has.
And if not, they sell outdoorsy stuff. Now you know.
On "The True Cost," there were a few segments interviewing the founder of Patagonia, and beyond selling outdoorsy clothes, I didn't know what kind of company they were. And I'm impressed.
They're not about selling more stuff. In fact, they're focused on limiting it. Patagonia even promotes buying and selling their used products on eBay, and I learned on their website about Yerdle, where you give stuff away and get other things for free-- all for the sake of decreasing the need for production of new goods in general.
Their website isn't your typical shopping site, either. Around every corner (of... my computer screen...) is another video or presentation about how they are making their products-- and making their products improve the world. You can see what changes they've made to improve their production sources, which is a big thing for a company to challenge itself like this, and then publicly share their mistakes and then improvements. For example, Patagonia had a second-tier supplier (a supplier of their supplier) who were exploiting some migrant workers-- both legally and illegally. They decided (themselves) to audit all their second-tier suppliers, and when they found problems, they fixed them. If more companies did this, especially the big ones, just think what kind of progress would be made in the world!
The website never comes across as preachy, telling people what THEY should do. Patagonia just talks about decisions they've made and the benefits that have come from those choices. It's inspiring and uplifting, rather than preachy and guilt-inflicting.
One of their choices was to use organic cotton. Patagonia has been using organic cotton since 1996-- which is about a decade before I even knew cotton COULD be organic.
This video about cotton is only two minutes:
I love that when they decided to take the leap into organic cotton, they didn't just phase it in, hoping to make the transition by the next decade or so. No. They dropped products from their line until they could get them up to snuff. And that's a very cool priority to have when you're a business.
Never on the website do you feel like they're peddling their wares, trying to hook you into buying their stuff. Most clothing websites scream, "Buy 2 get one free!!" or, "Stock up for fall!!" (as if it's the first fall you've ever been required to wear clothes), or even, "Come spend your money on our fantastic products!!!" The focus is much more about the ideas that drive their company.
And ideas are much more compelling than products. (There's a TED Talk about that.)
So if I have heard of Patagonia, it probably means everyone has.
And if not, they sell outdoorsy stuff. Now you know.
On "The True Cost," there were a few segments interviewing the founder of Patagonia, and beyond selling outdoorsy clothes, I didn't know what kind of company they were. And I'm impressed.
They're not about selling more stuff. In fact, they're focused on limiting it. Patagonia even promotes buying and selling their used products on eBay, and I learned on their website about Yerdle, where you give stuff away and get other things for free-- all for the sake of decreasing the need for production of new goods in general.
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| I didn't, so I guess the strategy is working! ;) |
Their website isn't your typical shopping site, either. Around every corner (of... my computer screen...) is another video or presentation about how they are making their products-- and making their products improve the world. You can see what changes they've made to improve their production sources, which is a big thing for a company to challenge itself like this, and then publicly share their mistakes and then improvements. For example, Patagonia had a second-tier supplier (a supplier of their supplier) who were exploiting some migrant workers-- both legally and illegally. They decided (themselves) to audit all their second-tier suppliers, and when they found problems, they fixed them. If more companies did this, especially the big ones, just think what kind of progress would be made in the world!
The website never comes across as preachy, telling people what THEY should do. Patagonia just talks about decisions they've made and the benefits that have come from those choices. It's inspiring and uplifting, rather than preachy and guilt-inflicting.
One of their choices was to use organic cotton. Patagonia has been using organic cotton since 1996-- which is about a decade before I even knew cotton COULD be organic.
This video about cotton is only two minutes:
I love that when they decided to take the leap into organic cotton, they didn't just phase it in, hoping to make the transition by the next decade or so. No. They dropped products from their line until they could get them up to snuff. And that's a very cool priority to have when you're a business.
Never on the website do you feel like they're peddling their wares, trying to hook you into buying their stuff. Most clothing websites scream, "Buy 2 get one free!!" or, "Stock up for fall!!" (as if it's the first fall you've ever been required to wear clothes), or even, "Come spend your money on our fantastic products!!!" The focus is much more about the ideas that drive their company.
And ideas are much more compelling than products. (There's a TED Talk about that.)
Tuesday, August 18, 2015
Stitch Fix time again!
You know that conflicted feeling when you're learning about all the problems of the fashion industry... and then you go ahead and post about your latest haul?
Yeah....
I've been feeling a bit conflicted about this, my Stitch Fix fixation, but I realized that I'm doing part of what I think needs to be done. I'm putting thought into what I buy, carefully choosing clothes that I will wear for some time, and learning what suits my body and personality, not just buying everything the store happens to have on sale that day.
So enter my second Stitch Fix. I'm a fan of this service, where they send you five items based on your style preferences and measurements, and you try them on at home, pay for what you keep, and send the rest back in the envelope provided. When I refer a friend, I get $25 credit, so if you're interested in signing up, go ahead and use my link. Or I made a fancy button for the sidebar of my blog, so you can click on that too. Even if you don't sign up for Stitch Fix, take a look at my button. It took me longer to make than I'd like to admit.
I got a few chique items last time, and I got some great ones this time, too!
Behold:
Item 1: Martina Slub Knit Open Cardigan, by Pixley
Although the native Brazilians bring out the parkas when the temperature goes down to sixty-five degrees, I don't actually NEED a cardigan. The worst of our winter-- with some days even going as low as SIXTY degrees-- is past, and it is only getting warmer. However, we're moving back to the US where it's cold half the time, and... I absolutely love this cardigan!
It's very lightweight, and the sleeves are perfect: long enough without being baggy, fitted without being tight. The front is a little draped, and the bottoms of those drapes are sewn to make sort of pockets.
I love it!
Verdict: Kept
Item 2: Cheyanne Printed Maxi Skirt, by Loveappella (also above)
When I first opened the box and saw this pattern, I thought it was a zig-zag chevron design, and I wasn't sure I could handle that.
If it had fake mustaches printed on it, I'd also object.
But it turned out to be more than just chevrons. It has different styles of zig-zags with triangles and other geometric designs, and I love the overall effect. It's stretchy, long, comfortable, and goes with a couple other tops I have.
Verdict: Kept
Item 3: Katina Mix Material Knit Top, by Le Sample
I like the blue and white design. I appreciate the trendiness of the color-block. It's longer in the back, which can be a flattering style, but it just didn't work for me.
The white part is more sheer than I'd like, and I felt like the front was too short and the back too long. Maybe if it was divided in two, it would be like coat tails. THAT would be cool! But since I had to convince myself to like this shirt, I decided to pass.
Item 4: Brayden Cargo Skinny Pant, by Kut from the Kloth
Item 5: Naya Knit Top, by Renee C
Yeah....
I've been feeling a bit conflicted about this, my Stitch Fix fixation, but I realized that I'm doing part of what I think needs to be done. I'm putting thought into what I buy, carefully choosing clothes that I will wear for some time, and learning what suits my body and personality, not just buying everything the store happens to have on sale that day.
So enter my second Stitch Fix. I'm a fan of this service, where they send you five items based on your style preferences and measurements, and you try them on at home, pay for what you keep, and send the rest back in the envelope provided. When I refer a friend, I get $25 credit, so if you're interested in signing up, go ahead and use my link. Or I made a fancy button for the sidebar of my blog, so you can click on that too. Even if you don't sign up for Stitch Fix, take a look at my button. It took me longer to make than I'd like to admit.
I got a few chique items last time, and I got some great ones this time, too!
Behold:
It's very lightweight, and the sleeves are perfect: long enough without being baggy, fitted without being tight. The front is a little draped, and the bottoms of those drapes are sewn to make sort of pockets.
I love it!
Verdict: Kept
Item 2: Cheyanne Printed Maxi Skirt, by Loveappella (also above)
When I first opened the box and saw this pattern, I thought it was a zig-zag chevron design, and I wasn't sure I could handle that.
If it had fake mustaches printed on it, I'd also object.
But it turned out to be more than just chevrons. It has different styles of zig-zags with triangles and other geometric designs, and I love the overall effect. It's stretchy, long, comfortable, and goes with a couple other tops I have.
Verdict: Kept
Item 3: Katina Mix Material Knit Top, by Le Sample
The white part is more sheer than I'd like, and I felt like the front was too short and the back too long. Maybe if it was divided in two, it would be like coat tails. THAT would be cool! But since I had to convince myself to like this shirt, I decided to pass.
Item 4: Brayden Cargo Skinny Pant, by Kut from the Kloth
These were my initial favorites when I first opened the box. The fabric is gorgeous, and the color is a lovely charcoal. At one point in college, half my wardrobe was charcoal colored, and I loved it!
But the pants are cargo pants. Having the cargo pocket right smack-dab on the front of my thigh isn't terribly slimming.
And then there's the length. They're longer than cropped pants should be, but then they're short enough to come up to mid-calf when I sit down.
It took me a while to finally figure out what it is about these pants: These are the reincarnation of every bad pair of pants I ever bought in high school... back to haunt me!
Verdict: Need I say?Item 5: Naya Knit Top, by Renee C
I loved the pattern close up. It's intricate and interesting and definitely eye-catching. I decided to keep it because it's beautiful and fun to look at.
Then I saw a picture of myself wearing it. I'm not a fan. Maybe if I covered it up with my GORGEOUS cardigan, I'd love it more. But let's face it, that's not a good reason to buy a shirt.
Verdict: Returned
And just to prove that I finally learned how to make a fancy link button, here is another:
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Saturday, August 15, 2015
How I got chique shoes, pants, and a purse absolutely FREE!
I love passing on good deals, especially when they are something that I feel good about and make the world a better place. And what is better than FREE STUFF?!
It's a little something I'd like to call gratitude shopping.
Gratitude shopping is simply searching through your closet to find a hidden treasure, something you'd forgotten you had, or that needed some TLC before you could actually use it. It's being grateful for what we already have-- and remembering why we loved something in the first place.
And everyone can afford it!
In fact, it even makes us richer.
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| If I could find some hidden treasures in this bare-bones closet, I think anyone can! |
My haul:
Purse:
I only got this purse a few months ago, but I managed to get the handle stuck in the car between my seat and the center console. Obviously next step was just to yank really hard, which I did and ripped a gash the handle.
Awesome.
So I still use it every day, but look kind of like a hobo.
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| The rip is obvious, but it wasn't until I took this picture that I noticed how DIRTY it had gotten! |
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| It magically grew pockets too! |
Jeans:
I've had these Old Navy jeans for a few years, but I hardly wore them because they're not the right shape! If my body continued to widen like an ice cream cone, these would be perfect, but I think I'm not alone in needing the waistband to actually hold my pants up.
Imagine that!
So I tailored them. It didn't take long for my Old Navy jeans to become Oldavy, and now they stay up!
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| And no, I'm not holding my pants up. They stay where they belong! Hallelujah! |
Okay, so I didn't do anything to these shoes. I just found them, dusted them off, and decided to wear them with pants. Apparently dress shoes with pants is a thing now.
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| They also make fun dress-up shoes for my kids. |
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But it doesn't.
Gratitude does.
Wednesday, August 12, 2015
I don't think the world will be saved by efficiency
People Tree is the epitome of a clothing company out to save the world.
In their words, "For over twenty years, People Tree has partnered with Fair Trade artisans and farmers in the developing world to produce a collection of ethical and eco fashion. Fair Trade is about creating a new way of doing business, creating access to markets and opportunities for people who live in the developing world."
They use organic cotton. They weave fabric by hand. They embroider by hand. They knit sweaters by hand. They screen print by hand.
The pragmatist in me screams, "WHY ARE YOU DOING IT BY HAND? THEY HAVE MACHINES FOR THIS!!"
Sorry, my thoughts are kind of loud.
But who are "they", these people with the machines? Um, not me. I have a sewing machine or two, but I don't have a loom or a spinning wheel, for personal use and certainly not an industrial strength one! And that's the point.
The people at People Tree wanted to employ people in rural areas, instead of forcing them to leave their families to live in the cities where the industrial-strength machines are. And I. Love. That.
If a mother can make a living wage by using her own skills in her own home-- or at least hometown, families will be stronger, and society will be better. So these hand-knitted sweaters? These hand-spun threads? There's a reason for those, and I'm on board.
In the documentary I watched, The True Cost, (seriously, go watch it. It's on Netflix) I loved where they showed one of People Tree's company meetings. The CEO was visiting with some women in their production areas, telling them about the chance for one of them to visit London to represent the manufacturers and see the other side of the business, the customers, the stores, and the end result of their labors. It reminded me of companies I have worked for in the past, rather than nose-to-the-grindstone sweat-shops so prevalent in textile manufacturing.
Obviously buying a hand-knitted sweater will cost you more than a machine-made acrylic one. But right now they're having a sale, and after signing up for their newsletter for an extra discount, I was able to buy a dress for $60, including international shipping! Not too bad!!
I'm not going to recommend that everyone go rush out and buy their products. In fact, a big part of the problem is our propensity to rush out and buy in the first place. But if you are already planning on making a purchase, consider shopping at People Tree.
Or just go look at their products. It's amazing what people can do.
In their words, "For over twenty years, People Tree has partnered with Fair Trade artisans and farmers in the developing world to produce a collection of ethical and eco fashion. Fair Trade is about creating a new way of doing business, creating access to markets and opportunities for people who live in the developing world."
They use organic cotton. They weave fabric by hand. They embroider by hand. They knit sweaters by hand. They screen print by hand.
The pragmatist in me screams, "WHY ARE YOU DOING IT BY HAND? THEY HAVE MACHINES FOR THIS!!"
Sorry, my thoughts are kind of loud.
But who are "they", these people with the machines? Um, not me. I have a sewing machine or two, but I don't have a loom or a spinning wheel, for personal use and certainly not an industrial strength one! And that's the point.
The people at People Tree wanted to employ people in rural areas, instead of forcing them to leave their families to live in the cities where the industrial-strength machines are. And I. Love. That.
If a mother can make a living wage by using her own skills in her own home-- or at least hometown, families will be stronger, and society will be better. So these hand-knitted sweaters? These hand-spun threads? There's a reason for those, and I'm on board.
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| Plus, who can argue with this end result?! |
In the documentary I watched, The True Cost, (seriously, go watch it. It's on Netflix) I loved where they showed one of People Tree's company meetings. The CEO was visiting with some women in their production areas, telling them about the chance for one of them to visit London to represent the manufacturers and see the other side of the business, the customers, the stores, and the end result of their labors. It reminded me of companies I have worked for in the past, rather than nose-to-the-grindstone sweat-shops so prevalent in textile manufacturing.
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| I did some hand weaving in elementary school. This is not it. |
Obviously buying a hand-knitted sweater will cost you more than a machine-made acrylic one. But right now they're having a sale, and after signing up for their newsletter for an extra discount, I was able to buy a dress for $60, including international shipping! Not too bad!!
I'm not going to recommend that everyone go rush out and buy their products. In fact, a big part of the problem is our propensity to rush out and buy in the first place. But if you are already planning on making a purchase, consider shopping at People Tree.
Or just go look at their products. It's amazing what people can do.
Saturday, August 8, 2015
The True Cost
I had a sick day a few days ago, and I spent the morning watching "Mansfield Park" with my baby snuggled on my chest. He is teething and a little sick himself, so he fell asleep partway through.
So I HAD to keep lying on the couch and finish the whole movie.
This version of the movie tells Jane Austen's story, adding another historical backdrop related to slavery. At one point, Edmund and Fanny go off horse riding and talking, as one is wont to do in a period drama:
E: "It's just it's problems with the slaves on the plantation. The abolitionists are making inroads."
F: "That's a good thing, isn't it?"
E: "Well, we all live off the profits, Fanny. Including you."
And it hit me just how awkward her position is-- can you imagine?
She's opposed to slavery, and yet every time she ate a meal, put sugar in her tea, or hosted a dinner party, she was contributing to the problem and benefiting from the oppression of others.
But how was one young woman supposed to make a difference? She could enact a one-woman boycott on sugar, cotton, tobacco, and anything else directly created by slave labor. But this tiny drop in the huge bucket wouldn't equate to any slave's burden being eased. It probably wouldn't even reduce her family's consumption of these materials. The system had to change.
Later in the film, Fanny Price speaks her opinions to her family and friends: "Correct if I am in error, but if you were to bring a slave back to England, there would be some argument whether or not they should be freed-- if I'm not mistaken."
Certainly, this wasn't an earth-shattering, revolutionary statement, leading immediately to the emancipation of all enslaved people. (It's fictional anyway.) But it's evidence that awareness was growing and change would be supported. And that's one step in the right direction.
After watching Mansfield Park, I had to pick up Naomi from preschool, put William down for his nap, and then collapse on the couch for another movie. This time I chose a documentary on Netflix called, "The True Cost."
I am learning about fashion, and I write a fashion blog. It's a documentary about the fashion industry. This is something I needed to see.
It was fascinating, eye opening, challenging, disturbing, inspiring.
It bothered me.
To briefly summarize, the fashion industry, and especially "fast fashion," which has developed in the last couple decades, have provided cheap and abundant clothing in the developed world, paid for by the labor and lives of millions of manufacturers around the world.
It made me question how I can be a moral person and still wear clothes-- which is a question I've never asked myself before.
How can I write about fashion and dressing well and buying new clothes, when the fashion industry has built itself on the backs of people paid in a month what many Americans make in an hour?
How can I enjoy getting a good deal on a shirt when I know more of my money is going up the totem pole than down?
It's not okay.
But what can I do?
I could boycott new clothes or certain fast-fashion brands, but like Fanny Price, how much good would one woman's boycott do?
I could write criticisms and complaints, heaping deserved shame on a greedy, materialistic system. But the world-- and especially the internet-- has enough negativity. My goal has been to write a blog I would enjoy reading, and I want to stick to that.
And I don't want to guilt myself or others. Guilt is a terrible motivator. (Have you gone to the gym yet today? Why not? Didn't you promise yourself to exercise more? See! Terrible motivator!!)
So first, I'm going to share the news. Watch this documentary, please! See if it troubles you, inspires you, bothers you, motivates you. Let me know what you think! Let me know if you have any ideas-- and not just for what OTHER people should do. How can I change? How can WE change? What can we do, on a small scale or on a larger scale?
I'm trying to dress better, and after watching this documentary, I feel like "better" has to mean more than just gracing the world with my dolled-up presence.
So I HAD to keep lying on the couch and finish the whole movie.
This version of the movie tells Jane Austen's story, adding another historical backdrop related to slavery. At one point, Edmund and Fanny go off horse riding and talking, as one is wont to do in a period drama:
F: "That's a good thing, isn't it?"
E: "Well, we all live off the profits, Fanny. Including you."
And it hit me just how awkward her position is-- can you imagine?
She's opposed to slavery, and yet every time she ate a meal, put sugar in her tea, or hosted a dinner party, she was contributing to the problem and benefiting from the oppression of others.
But how was one young woman supposed to make a difference? She could enact a one-woman boycott on sugar, cotton, tobacco, and anything else directly created by slave labor. But this tiny drop in the huge bucket wouldn't equate to any slave's burden being eased. It probably wouldn't even reduce her family's consumption of these materials. The system had to change.
Later in the film, Fanny Price speaks her opinions to her family and friends: "Correct if I am in error, but if you were to bring a slave back to England, there would be some argument whether or not they should be freed-- if I'm not mistaken."
Certainly, this wasn't an earth-shattering, revolutionary statement, leading immediately to the emancipation of all enslaved people. (It's fictional anyway.) But it's evidence that awareness was growing and change would be supported. And that's one step in the right direction.
After watching Mansfield Park, I had to pick up Naomi from preschool, put William down for his nap, and then collapse on the couch for another movie. This time I chose a documentary on Netflix called, "The True Cost."
I am learning about fashion, and I write a fashion blog. It's a documentary about the fashion industry. This is something I needed to see.
It was fascinating, eye opening, challenging, disturbing, inspiring.
It bothered me.
To briefly summarize, the fashion industry, and especially "fast fashion," which has developed in the last couple decades, have provided cheap and abundant clothing in the developed world, paid for by the labor and lives of millions of manufacturers around the world.
It made me question how I can be a moral person and still wear clothes-- which is a question I've never asked myself before.
How can I write about fashion and dressing well and buying new clothes, when the fashion industry has built itself on the backs of people paid in a month what many Americans make in an hour?
How can I enjoy getting a good deal on a shirt when I know more of my money is going up the totem pole than down?
It's not okay.
But what can I do?
I could boycott new clothes or certain fast-fashion brands, but like Fanny Price, how much good would one woman's boycott do?
I could write criticisms and complaints, heaping deserved shame on a greedy, materialistic system. But the world-- and especially the internet-- has enough negativity. My goal has been to write a blog I would enjoy reading, and I want to stick to that.
And I don't want to guilt myself or others. Guilt is a terrible motivator. (Have you gone to the gym yet today? Why not? Didn't you promise yourself to exercise more? See! Terrible motivator!!)
So first, I'm going to share the news. Watch this documentary, please! See if it troubles you, inspires you, bothers you, motivates you. Let me know what you think! Let me know if you have any ideas-- and not just for what OTHER people should do. How can I change? How can WE change? What can we do, on a small scale or on a larger scale?
I'm trying to dress better, and after watching this documentary, I feel like "better" has to mean more than just gracing the world with my dolled-up presence.
Thursday, August 6, 2015
Naomi's Fashionable Clothes
I swear I don't talk about my new clothes and my blog all the time.
Although Kevin usually gets an unsuspecting earful when he gets home from work.
And I do have my daughter take pictures for me.
And my girls helped me tape outfit cards on my closet doors.
So this shouldn't have surprised me:
She knows what to do when wearing her fashionable clothes: go take pictures in the front yard, of course!
Although Kevin usually gets an unsuspecting earful when he gets home from work.
And I do have my daughter take pictures for me.
And my girls helped me tape outfit cards on my closet doors.
So this shouldn't have surprised me:
She knows what to do when wearing her fashionable clothes: go take pictures in the front yard, of course!
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| I could learn something from this girl's poses |
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| I'm a bit biased, but this is one chique little girl! |
Tuesday, August 4, 2015
Panel of Experts: Giulia
I consider Stitch Fix as my fashion education. I pay for someone to teach me what to wear, and they choose my clothes and send me updates on what's in style and how to wear it. It's a good system so far. There's homework too, keeping my Pinterest style board up to date (though I realize this wouldn't feel like homework to most people).
I'm learning a lot.
Then there are people study Fashion Design in college. This is an actual fashion education, though I assume most people who enter the Fashion Design program already know how to dress themselves.
Such is the case for my friend, Giulia (pronounced "geeeyuuulwieeeaaa..." Just kidding. It's like "Julia" in English). Giulia is my Visiting Teacher, which means she visits with me every month as part of a program through our church to share a message about the Gospel and to just visit and help me out. It's seriously one of my favorite parts of church, this network of women that we create.
In the course of our visiting, I found out that she's finishing up college in the Fashion Design program. She's working on her final project, creating a bunch of outfits and having them made and then shown at a fashion show at the end of the year.
I'm learning a lot.
Then there are people study Fashion Design in college. This is an actual fashion education, though I assume most people who enter the Fashion Design program already know how to dress themselves.
Such is the case for my friend, Giulia (pronounced "geeeyuuulwieeeaaa..." Just kidding. It's like "Julia" in English). Giulia is my Visiting Teacher, which means she visits with me every month as part of a program through our church to share a message about the Gospel and to just visit and help me out. It's seriously one of my favorite parts of church, this network of women that we create.
In the course of our visiting, I found out that she's finishing up college in the Fashion Design program. She's working on her final project, creating a bunch of outfits and having them made and then shown at a fashion show at the end of the year.
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| How did people so much younger become so much cooler than me? |
I was able to catch her during her mid-year break, and she answered some interview questions for my blog!
- Where do you get your fashion inspiration?
Most of the time I try to know what celebrity I most identify with and watch what they are wearing or have worn. But I only use what really pleases me and is good for my body.
Well, it depends on when I find out about the event, but usually that day I start to think about what I going to wear, even before I'm sure if I'll go (laughs). Planning clothes depends on where the event will be held, the hour, the weather and the people who will be present. I always try to learn some of these details before to prepare myself, but if it is a date for example, and the person does not say where you're going, or you are embarrassed to ask, I suggest versatile clothes that are tidy but not too much or too little. For example, a dress and heels are perfect for going to a movie or to a fancy restaurant.
- If you have a nice event to go to (date, brunch, night out, etc.) when do you start thinking of what you’ll wear? How do you plan an outfit?
Well, it depends on when I find out about the event, but usually that day I start to think about what I going to wear, even before I'm sure if I'll go (laughs). Planning clothes depends on where the event will be held, the hour, the weather and the people who will be present. I always try to learn some of these details before to prepare myself, but if it is a date for example, and the person does not say where you're going, or you are embarrassed to ask, I suggest versatile clothes that are tidy but not too much or too little. For example, a dress and heels are perfect for going to a movie or to a fancy restaurant.
- What is your current favorite thing to wear?
Big Earrings and Fluffy Sweaters
And let me just interrupt to clarify for a moment. I grew up in the nineties, so when I read "fluffy sweaters," my brain came up with this:
And let me just interrupt to clarify for a moment. I grew up in the nineties, so when I read "fluffy sweaters," my brain came up with this:
Turns out, the new millennium comes with its own updated sweaters. This is the one Giulia has in mind:
Carry on.
- Top 10 items to have in your wardrobe:
1. Fluffy Sweater (see above)
2. Nice Accessories
3. Pumps
4. Boots
5. Day dress
6. Night dress
7. Nice Jeans
8. Blazer
9. A basic shirt
10. Sandals
- Shopping: What is your plan of attack when you go clothes shopping? Do you have a plan of attack?
Actually, I do not have a plan of attack. When I go shopping I'll first go to stores that I like and try something that pleases me and makes me fall in love with it, which is not too hard (laughs).
But one tip I give is to look calmly and be patient. The faster you go through racks, the less chance you will have to find cool stuff and like it.
But one tip I give is to look calmly and be patient. The faster you go through racks, the less chance you will have to find cool stuff and like it.
- What are some of your favorite stores (in person, online)? What do you usually buy there?
Some of my favorite stores are: Renner, C&A, Zara and Forever 21. They are in person, because I like to try things on and see the quality before buying.
I confess that I usually buy more shoes than anything (laughs), because you can change a whole look only with a pair of shoes, nice makeup and some accessories.
I confess that I usually buy more shoes than anything (laughs), because you can change a whole look only with a pair of shoes, nice makeup and some accessories.
Um... I didn't realize Forever 21 was an international brand. Turns out, it is! Who knew?!
- What advice would you give me or people like me for whom dressing well is challenging and out of their comfort zones?
Be yourself. You do not need be fashionable to dress well, or even be a trendsetter. Dressing well means feeling good about yourself, and being comfortable-- yes, comfortable! There is nothing worse than when you go out in a beautiful outfit, but it itches, hurts you, or makes you feel uncomfortable in any other way. As much as you think you look wonderful, you actually look uncomfortable rather than confident, and people can see it. But also being comfortable does not mean being sloppy. There are many beautiful clothes that are comfortable and tidy, but you just need to use patience while you shop.
Another tip is to ask someone you trust to evaluate if your clothes are good or not, and even help you to choose.
Aaaaand, it sounds like Giulia will be coming shopping with me later this month for Visiting Teaching!
Another tip is to ask someone you trust to evaluate if your clothes are good or not, and even help you to choose.
Aaaaand, it sounds like Giulia will be coming shopping with me later this month for Visiting Teaching!
Thursday, July 30, 2015
Who wore it better?
Turns out, if you make desperate pleas for advice on the internet, the internet is happy to oblige.
When I posted my first few attempts at dressing better, I didn't realize that the first thing everyone would notice was that, yes, I was wearing my uber-comfy nursing bra. Yes, I'd been wearing it for about 14 months straight. And no, it's not terribly supportive. Thanks for noticing, everyone! So after the third or fourth person mentioned it, I decided to wean my baby for the sole purpose of wearing my better, more supportive bras. So when William grows up and becomes a delinquent, I blame the internet.
Nah, just kidding. He is 15 months and I was planning on weaning him anyway.
This week, I found myself wearing this same outfit from the very beginning of my blog, and I realized I've actually learned a few things since starting this adventure.
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| See if you can spot the differences. And since you're all noticing, yes, I'm wearing a better bra. Moving on! |
My necklace is one I've had for a couple years now, and it's literally the only necklace I've ever bought myself. And man, do I have great taste! Coincidentally, I bought it from Sarah's jewelry shop. The beads are made from paper by women in Uganda. They are some seriously talented and resourceful women, because if I rolled up paper and tried to make them into beads. no one would be lining up to buy any of those necklaces. But I love the bright colors and the design. It's my style-- which is something I didn't know I had.
The beads get tangled all the time, which is annoying, but gives me something to do during long talks at church-- while I listen, of course!
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| Shoes. Who knew?! |
My sister, Sarah, (Seriously, 1980s, the future called. Try naming your kids something besides Sarah, Sarah, and Sarah!) actually has nothing to do with this post. But she joined me on my 4th of July post. She's so much cooler than me! She probably already knew you're supposed to wear statement jewelry and shoes. But she doesn't have a Kindle case as fancy as mine!
Friday, July 24, 2015
Maybe it's time to update the old jewelry box?
It would be an understatement to say I let my jewelry box collect dust. Because this is Brazil, and we grow mold here.
The entire back of my jewelry box grew a bumper crop of mold this summer, which I'm assuming wouldn't have happened if I had opened the cupboard once in a while. But I keep it in with my maternity clothes (hello, I'm not pregnant) and my sweaters (ahem, BRAZIL!), and there's just no reason for me to go in there.
Before we moved here, my jewelry box sat unopened in our house and in storage for about 18 months.
So it's safe to say I'm not really a jewelry girl.
I have some nice things. My grandma gave me a little butterfly pendant for my 8th birthday. It has a diamond on it, and if you really squint, you can see it sparkling there somewhere. Still have that. My sister gave me some wooden beads from her 8th grade class trip to DC. Still have those. My mother-in-law gave me some VERY nice things that I could probably wear if I had something to go with them. Of course I still have those.
But when Sarah talked about "holes in her wardrobe," my wardrobe is like Swiss cheese, but with more holes than cheese-- if that's even possible.
I decided to try and fill some of the holes in my jewelry collection. When Sarah said that World Market has some great accessories, I don't know about you, but I headed over to check it out.
I've been to a World Market store before. It has a ton of cool stuff from all over the world (like it's a market... from the whole world). I didn't see any jewelry. That's the problem selling jewelry in a furniture store. Maybe I should have checked under the couch cushions.
But going to their website, I could find it immediately. All you have to know is how to spell "jewelry," which I obviously do. (That was a joke for my British friends. Enjoy.)
I found some pieces I will definitely add to my jewelry box, just as soon as I get the mold cleaned off:
I got a great gold and turquoise necklace in my Stitch Fix last month. My options to wear with it? Nothing. But these would look great:
And speaking of jewellery that looks like leaves:
While I was looking around at World Market, I found this code to share with you all. If you click on it and use the code they give you, you get $10 off your order of $50. Not too shabby! And it gives me store credit for shamelessly promoting their website.
And you can all pretend to be surprised with me if I get these for my birthday next month.
The entire back of my jewelry box grew a bumper crop of mold this summer, which I'm assuming wouldn't have happened if I had opened the cupboard once in a while. But I keep it in with my maternity clothes (hello, I'm not pregnant) and my sweaters (ahem, BRAZIL!), and there's just no reason for me to go in there.
Before we moved here, my jewelry box sat unopened in our house and in storage for about 18 months.
So it's safe to say I'm not really a jewelry girl.
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| And yet, here's a picture of my jewelry box anyway! |
But when Sarah talked about "holes in her wardrobe," my wardrobe is like Swiss cheese, but with more holes than cheese-- if that's even possible.
I decided to try and fill some of the holes in my jewelry collection. When Sarah said that World Market has some great accessories, I don't know about you, but I headed over to check it out.
I've been to a World Market store before. It has a ton of cool stuff from all over the world (like it's a market... from the whole world). I didn't see any jewelry. That's the problem selling jewelry in a furniture store. Maybe I should have checked under the couch cushions.
But going to their website, I could find it immediately. All you have to know is how to spell "jewelry," which I obviously do. (That was a joke for my British friends. Enjoy.)
I found some pieces I will definitely add to my jewelry box, just as soon as I get the mold cleaned off:
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| This would be a MUCH nicer necklace than the plastic atrocity I bought last month. Real lapis instead of plastic. Imagine that! |
I got a great gold and turquoise necklace in my Stitch Fix last month. My options to wear with it? Nothing. But these would look great:
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| Love these tiny leaf filigree earrings. No, they're not ACTUALLY made from leaves, but for $4.99, I don't really care. They look like it from here. |
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| Oooh! I could wear this and pretend to be Arwen. I should ask for a long, flowy elven maiden dress in my next Stitch Fix! |
And you can all pretend to be surprised with me if I get these for my birthday next month.
Wednesday, July 22, 2015
Panel of Experts: Sarah
When you sign up to teach English in the Middle-of-Nowhere, China, it's going to be a life-changing adventure. In my case, I came home with adventure stories, a love of everything Chinese, as well as some great, lifelong friends-- and I'm not just talking intestinal parasites!
I'd like to introduce one of my good friends from that semester in Urumqi, Sarah.
In addition to her amazing contralto singing voice and passion for... well... everything, Sarah also has immaculate taste. She blogs over at Bombshell Bling, and so while it has been almost seven years since I've talked to her in person, I get to hear her voice as she writes about crafts, fantastic parties, and an unnatural obsession with s'mores. She has taste in decorating, cooking, and celebrating holidays, but today I've interviewed her about her fashion sense.
I tend to look at what friends, celebrities, and my favorite TV character are wearing and then go with my gut. Despite what Chelsea seems to think, I’m not a fashionista by any means, so I don’t tend to jump in with both feet at the first celebrity sighting of a new trend. I tend to wait it out a bit and see if I really like it and how it is going to last before I spend money and time implementing a new trend.
I have a lot of lovely, fashionable friends, and I definitely notice what they are wearing and think about how I would like to adapt it to my own style. A couple of people that I watch the most are my friend Jessica, who has a super flashy, colorful style that is a mix of cutting edge fashion and retro style, all mixed in with huge jewelry, and my sister Laura, who has a very Anthropologie-esque style that usually leans toward more muted colors and flowy fits. I tend to fall somewhere in the middle of the two, but definitely with bright colors and big jewelry.
I do watch what celebrities are wearing, and also what tv characters are wearing, interestingly. In college I adored what Monica and Rachel were wearing on Friends. I love what Zoe Deschanel wears, both on and off screen. Her colorful vintage vibe is right up my alley! Mindy Kaling’s character, Mindy Lahiri, on The Mindy Project has a wardrobe that I would LOVE to raid. It’s so dang colorful, AND it’s flattering for a non-size 2!
If I could step into the wardrobe of one person for the rest of my life it would absolutely be Kate Middleton. Except that I have nowhere to wear fancy suits and dresses. But they’re perfection.
Most of all, I look for things that are flattering on my figure. My figure has changed dramatically since having babies, so I have had to relearn what works on me and I tend to stick with certain fabrics and cuts when possible.
I have certain things that I wear a lot. My sisters call them my “uniforms.” I know they look good on me and I know that I am comfortable and confident in them. I feel that spending more money on “staple” items that can be dressed up or down is a great investment.
One thing I love is a great maxi dress. I have lots of solid colored dresses and tops that I dress up or down with bling. I am all about jewelry and bold lipstick. They both totally change the feel of an outfit! Sometimes I plan ahead, but more often than not I just walk in my closet and see what I feel like wearing that day and then mess around with makeup and jewelry to change the look a bit.
Honestly? Yoga pants and Target t-shirts. That’s my ultimate “uniform.” Seriously. ;)
When I have a reason to look nice I’m all about maxi skirts with basic t-shirt tops and big necklaces. During the winter I live in skinny jeans, a basic top, long cardigan, fun infinity scarf, and boots. Boots and jeans are another great place to invest more money. If you’re like me you wear jeans almost everyday. For goodness sake, invest in a pair that FITS WELL and is comfortable! And make them dark wash! So much more flattering. I wear my boots into the ground, and they totally make or break an outfit.
(In no particular order.)
1. Great skinny jeans. I wear American Eagle High Waisted Jeggings in the darkest color. (They do bleed at first so wash them inside out in cold water only with other darks for the first few washes.) They are SO FREAKING COMFORTABLE!! American Eagle jeggings — not just for teenagers — who knew?! I wear jeans sized in the double digits, so you can trust me that they aren’t just for pre-baby bodies!)
2. Maxi Skirts
3. Infinity Scarves (World Market is my fav place to find them.)
4. Great boots
5. A fantastic pair of black heels — mine are peep toe and I adore them.
6. Target T-Shirts
7. Maxi Dresses that you can dress up or down
8. Long cardigans in both plain colors and bold patterns that I can throw over basic tops
9. Flowy tops that can be worn alone or with big bling
10. BLING! Lots of bling. And, as a friend once said to me, “The bigger the woman, the bigger the bling should be.” Big necklaces fill up space, ladies. It’s true. Although I wore them even when I was skinny . . . so I guess I just love big bling! :)
No plan unless I have something very specific that I need. I usually just go to my favorite places and look around. You can get great deals at places like TJ Maxx and Ross, but I don’t have patience for that. I will pay more in order to be able to walk in, scan the room, and know what is there. I don’t have time to dig.
Overall, I look for colors and patterns that jump out at me. I also look for things to fill “holes” in my wardrobe, whether that’s a certain color or a certain style that I don’t have much of. Above all, it must be a fit and fabric that I know looks good on me. If it isn’t then I don’t bother trying it on, regardless of how cute it looks on a hanger.
For dressy stuff and jewelry I love Anthropologie and Nordstrom. Obviously, I shop the sales there. Online I’ve gotten some great retro-style dresses at Shabby Apple, and I recently discovered a site called Kiyonna that sells plus sized clothing. I got a formal dress there for a performance and I love it!
More often, I shop at Target, H&M, Old Navy, GAP, and Nordstrom Rack. Nordstrom Rack has fantastic jewelry. World Market is a great place for scarves and jewelry at bargain prices.
Just keep trying new things and BE BRAVE. It took me years to put on skinny jeans because I thought I’d look fat in them. Well, maybe I do, but they are fashionable and cute, and they allow me to wear boots all winter in Colorado! I love them! I shouldn’t have waited so long!
Over time you will figure out what fabrics and cuts are best on you, and you will figure out your personal style. I wear bigger jewelry, brighter colors, and more sequins than most of my friends. But that’s me! Just own your personal style. Fun makeup and a cut haircut are a great way to shake things up.
And one tip that I feel is valuable for every woman: A GREAT BRA AND SPANX! The Target Assets brand knockoff Spanx are affordable and will smooth you right out, whether you are already thin or not! I don’t wear them daily, but you’d better believe I wear them when I’m dressed up! And a great bra is an everyday essential. I go to the Nordstrom semi-annual sales and get fitted with the workers (yes, it’s embarrassing) and suddenly I look ten pounds lighter with those things hiked up. Great bras aren’t just for busty gals like myself. Sometimes I look at my super thin, flat chested friends and think, “Girl - hike those things up! You will love the fit of that dress so much more if you do!” Great undergarments make everything you wear look better. Best fashion investment of all!
I'd like to introduce one of my good friends from that semester in Urumqi, Sarah.
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| Everyone: "Hello, Sarah!" |
- Where do you get your fashion inspiration?
I tend to look at what friends, celebrities, and my favorite TV character are wearing and then go with my gut. Despite what Chelsea seems to think, I’m not a fashionista by any means, so I don’t tend to jump in with both feet at the first celebrity sighting of a new trend. I tend to wait it out a bit and see if I really like it and how it is going to last before I spend money and time implementing a new trend.
I have a lot of lovely, fashionable friends, and I definitely notice what they are wearing and think about how I would like to adapt it to my own style. A couple of people that I watch the most are my friend Jessica, who has a super flashy, colorful style that is a mix of cutting edge fashion and retro style, all mixed in with huge jewelry, and my sister Laura, who has a very Anthropologie-esque style that usually leans toward more muted colors and flowy fits. I tend to fall somewhere in the middle of the two, but definitely with bright colors and big jewelry.
I do watch what celebrities are wearing, and also what tv characters are wearing, interestingly. In college I adored what Monica and Rachel were wearing on Friends. I love what Zoe Deschanel wears, both on and off screen. Her colorful vintage vibe is right up my alley! Mindy Kaling’s character, Mindy Lahiri, on The Mindy Project has a wardrobe that I would LOVE to raid. It’s so dang colorful, AND it’s flattering for a non-size 2!
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| Mindy Lahiri? You know, I'm just not seeing it. *wink* |
If I could step into the wardrobe of one person for the rest of my life it would absolutely be Kate Middleton. Except that I have nowhere to wear fancy suits and dresses. But they’re perfection.
Most of all, I look for things that are flattering on my figure. My figure has changed dramatically since having babies, so I have had to relearn what works on me and I tend to stick with certain fabrics and cuts when possible.
- If you have a nice event to go to (brunch, night out, etc.) when do you start thinking of what you’ll wear? How do you plan an outfit?
I have certain things that I wear a lot. My sisters call them my “uniforms.” I know they look good on me and I know that I am comfortable and confident in them. I feel that spending more money on “staple” items that can be dressed up or down is a great investment.
One thing I love is a great maxi dress. I have lots of solid colored dresses and tops that I dress up or down with bling. I am all about jewelry and bold lipstick. They both totally change the feel of an outfit! Sometimes I plan ahead, but more often than not I just walk in my closet and see what I feel like wearing that day and then mess around with makeup and jewelry to change the look a bit.
- What is your current favorite thing to wear?
Honestly? Yoga pants and Target t-shirts. That’s my ultimate “uniform.” Seriously. ;)
When I have a reason to look nice I’m all about maxi skirts with basic t-shirt tops and big necklaces. During the winter I live in skinny jeans, a basic top, long cardigan, fun infinity scarf, and boots. Boots and jeans are another great place to invest more money. If you’re like me you wear jeans almost everyday. For goodness sake, invest in a pair that FITS WELL and is comfortable! And make them dark wash! So much more flattering. I wear my boots into the ground, and they totally make or break an outfit.
- Top 10 items to have in your wardrobe:
(In no particular order.)
1. Great skinny jeans. I wear American Eagle High Waisted Jeggings in the darkest color. (They do bleed at first so wash them inside out in cold water only with other darks for the first few washes.) They are SO FREAKING COMFORTABLE!! American Eagle jeggings — not just for teenagers — who knew?! I wear jeans sized in the double digits, so you can trust me that they aren’t just for pre-baby bodies!)
2. Maxi Skirts
3. Infinity Scarves (World Market is my fav place to find them.)
4. Great boots
5. A fantastic pair of black heels — mine are peep toe and I adore them.
6. Target T-Shirts
7. Maxi Dresses that you can dress up or down
8. Long cardigans in both plain colors and bold patterns that I can throw over basic tops
9. Flowy tops that can be worn alone or with big bling
10. BLING! Lots of bling. And, as a friend once said to me, “The bigger the woman, the bigger the bling should be.” Big necklaces fill up space, ladies. It’s true. Although I wore them even when I was skinny . . . so I guess I just love big bling! :)
- Shopping: What is your plan of attack when you go clothes shopping? Do you have a plan of attack?
No plan unless I have something very specific that I need. I usually just go to my favorite places and look around. You can get great deals at places like TJ Maxx and Ross, but I don’t have patience for that. I will pay more in order to be able to walk in, scan the room, and know what is there. I don’t have time to dig.
Overall, I look for colors and patterns that jump out at me. I also look for things to fill “holes” in my wardrobe, whether that’s a certain color or a certain style that I don’t have much of. Above all, it must be a fit and fabric that I know looks good on me. If it isn’t then I don’t bother trying it on, regardless of how cute it looks on a hanger.
- What are some of your favorite stores (in person, online)? What do you usually buy there?
For dressy stuff and jewelry I love Anthropologie and Nordstrom. Obviously, I shop the sales there. Online I’ve gotten some great retro-style dresses at Shabby Apple, and I recently discovered a site called Kiyonna that sells plus sized clothing. I got a formal dress there for a performance and I love it!
More often, I shop at Target, H&M, Old Navy, GAP, and Nordstrom Rack. Nordstrom Rack has fantastic jewelry. World Market is a great place for scarves and jewelry at bargain prices.
- What advice would you give me or people like me for whom dressing well is challenging and out of their comfort zones?
Just keep trying new things and BE BRAVE. It took me years to put on skinny jeans because I thought I’d look fat in them. Well, maybe I do, but they are fashionable and cute, and they allow me to wear boots all winter in Colorado! I love them! I shouldn’t have waited so long!
Over time you will figure out what fabrics and cuts are best on you, and you will figure out your personal style. I wear bigger jewelry, brighter colors, and more sequins than most of my friends. But that’s me! Just own your personal style. Fun makeup and a cut haircut are a great way to shake things up.
And one tip that I feel is valuable for every woman: A GREAT BRA AND SPANX! The Target Assets brand knockoff Spanx are affordable and will smooth you right out, whether you are already thin or not! I don’t wear them daily, but you’d better believe I wear them when I’m dressed up! And a great bra is an everyday essential. I go to the Nordstrom semi-annual sales and get fitted with the workers (yes, it’s embarrassing) and suddenly I look ten pounds lighter with those things hiked up. Great bras aren’t just for busty gals like myself. Sometimes I look at my super thin, flat chested friends and think, “Girl - hike those things up! You will love the fit of that dress so much more if you do!” Great undergarments make everything you wear look better. Best fashion investment of all!
Monday, July 20, 2015
Believe it or not, I know people who dress well
In 2011, we were posted to Shenyang, China, and Kevin was invited to an event at a 5-star hotel in town. It was on the night of our anniversary, and with our second baby almost three months old, we needed a night out!
I've never been someone who looks forward to an event like this and thinks, "Wow, what a fun occasion to get all dolled up!" In fact, I have never used the phrase, "get all dolled up," in real life. Instead, this is an event that causes panic and a feeling of being under-prepared, under-dressed, and outclassed. I rummaged and rummaged through my closet and found myself asking, "Well, what T-shirt would look nice with this?" And the brick wall I kept hitting kept telling me, "None of them!"
We lived upstairs from a huge shopping mall, which included H&M and Zara, as well as hundreds of Chinese stores for Chinese-sized women. I ran downstairs (well, I walked to the elevator) and found a black, lacy dress suitable for the occasion. It took me another long while to find some shoes. When you wear a size 8.5 in the USA, China thinks you're a Sasquatch.
I eventually found some size 8's that I could squeeze into, so I minced off to the ball like Cinderella's (dolled up) stepsister.
It was a step in the right direction, but after I saw the pictures we took, I realized that the outfit had looked a lot more glamorous in my head. Something was missing, or maybe a lot of somethings, and I had no idea what do about it-- even living upstairs from H&M! It seems like some people can just walk into a store and find some fantastic combinations and make some great outfits. But I had no idea where to start. Was there a class, or some kind of nerd-extracting therapy I could take?
So in a desperate plea for help, I emailed a couple friends who are fantastically talented at dressing well and getting dolled up-- and somehow still friends with me. I asked them what I should buy, how I should shop, and what they would do in my situation.
And being not only beautiful and glamorous, but also incredibly kind, they both gave me some really good advice.
I took some notes and made a shopping list and a plan, then headed down to H&M. This is one of the outfits I bought and wore on Christmas:
It's not going to win any fashion awards, but I was really happy to have chosen something out of my usual comfort zone.
And I am very happy to STILL have these chique friends. In some upcoming posts, and hopefully on a regular basis in the future, I'll be interviewing some of my chique friends and sharing their wisdom on this blog. I have learned so much from them, and I'm sure I'm not the only one who could benefit from their perspectives!
For my first installment, coming later this week, I'll be interviewing my friend, Sarah. She is one of the original girls I emailed for help back in 2011, and I'm excited to have her as my very first guest-poster on my blog!
Stay tuned!
I've never been someone who looks forward to an event like this and thinks, "Wow, what a fun occasion to get all dolled up!" In fact, I have never used the phrase, "get all dolled up," in real life. Instead, this is an event that causes panic and a feeling of being under-prepared, under-dressed, and outclassed. I rummaged and rummaged through my closet and found myself asking, "Well, what T-shirt would look nice with this?" And the brick wall I kept hitting kept telling me, "None of them!"
We lived upstairs from a huge shopping mall, which included H&M and Zara, as well as hundreds of Chinese stores for Chinese-sized women. I ran downstairs (well, I walked to the elevator) and found a black, lacy dress suitable for the occasion. It took me another long while to find some shoes. When you wear a size 8.5 in the USA, China thinks you're a Sasquatch.
I eventually found some size 8's that I could squeeze into, so I minced off to the ball like Cinderella's (dolled up) stepsister.
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| Lace dress and black leggings. Just pretend I'm still wearing my shoes. |
So in a desperate plea for help, I emailed a couple friends who are fantastically talented at dressing well and getting dolled up-- and somehow still friends with me. I asked them what I should buy, how I should shop, and what they would do in my situation.
And being not only beautiful and glamorous, but also incredibly kind, they both gave me some really good advice.
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"Look, tell her destiny has brought you together. Tell her that she's the most beautiful girl you have ever seen. Girls like that stuff. What, what are you doing, George?" "I'm writing this down. This is good stuff." |
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| Sparkly sweater, pencil skirt, a purple halter top, matching earrings |
And I am very happy to STILL have these chique friends. In some upcoming posts, and hopefully on a regular basis in the future, I'll be interviewing some of my chique friends and sharing their wisdom on this blog. I have learned so much from them, and I'm sure I'm not the only one who could benefit from their perspectives!
For my first installment, coming later this week, I'll be interviewing my friend, Sarah. She is one of the original girls I emailed for help back in 2011, and I'm excited to have her as my very first guest-poster on my blog!
Stay tuned!
Thursday, July 16, 2015
In no way should this post be taken as a movie recommendation
Back in 2011 there was this cute new Jennifer Aniston rom-com in the theaters, and I went to see it with a group of ladies from church. It was a diverse group, spanning the generations, including a very proper woman, probably in her mid-seventies at the time-- the go-to woman to teach classes on etiquette and manners and that sort of thing.
Did you see "Just Go with It"? It was terrible! It was your typical Adam Sandler fare, and while it was also technically a cute Jennifer Aniston rom-com, it's certainly not one you'd invite someone's straight-laced grandmother to! Oh, I cringe when I watch Adam Sandler movies anyway, but it was doubly awkward this time around.
Maybe that's why I remember it so clearly.
But there was one part that actually made me think. Rare for an Adam Sandler movie, I know.
It wasn't terribly DEEP thinking, just to be clear.
In the beginning of "Just Go with It," when Adam Sandler is convincing his receptionist to pretend to be his wife, they have a conversation that goes basically like this:
(Walking through a fancy mall)
A: Will you please just look at some clothes?
J: Look at that! I don't wear that! I have clothes, by the way.
A: Yeah, the best clothes that Old Navy sells.
And then she goes on a Rodeo Drive shopping spree, transforming from this:
There are a lot of lessons that can be learned from this. Lots of deep thoughts to be had.
Mine was this:
Old Navy isn't high fashion?!?
I'd never actually thought about it before. Stores are stores, aren't they? I mean, Old Navy sells dresses and belts and stuff. Isn't that enough to be chique?
Now, you can't be too careful on the internet.
Dear Old Navy,
I have no intention to smear you as some non-chique clothing store. I'm just repeating what Adam Sandler said. (Is that ever a legitimate excuse?!) To be fair, all my favorite, most comfortable maternity clothes came from your store. (Well, the ones that didn't come from H&M. Or Target.) When I need more jeans and t-shirts, or next time I'm in 8th grade, I'll be back!
But for now I'm moving on, taking my fashion advice from Adam Sandler.
Did you see "Just Go with It"? It was terrible! It was your typical Adam Sandler fare, and while it was also technically a cute Jennifer Aniston rom-com, it's certainly not one you'd invite someone's straight-laced grandmother to! Oh, I cringe when I watch Adam Sandler movies anyway, but it was doubly awkward this time around.
Maybe that's why I remember it so clearly.
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| That look on Jennifer Aniston's face? Pretty much how I felt while I watched it. |
It wasn't terribly DEEP thinking, just to be clear.
In the beginning of "Just Go with It," when Adam Sandler is convincing his receptionist to pretend to be his wife, they have a conversation that goes basically like this:
(Walking through a fancy mall)
A: Will you please just look at some clothes?
J: Look at that! I don't wear that! I have clothes, by the way.
A: Yeah, the best clothes that Old Navy sells.
And then she goes on a Rodeo Drive shopping spree, transforming from this:
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| Old Navy's best |
To this:
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| Muito chique! |
Mine was this:
Old Navy isn't high fashion?!?
I'd never actually thought about it before. Stores are stores, aren't they? I mean, Old Navy sells dresses and belts and stuff. Isn't that enough to be chique?
Now, you can't be too careful on the internet.
Dear Old Navy,
I have no intention to smear you as some non-chique clothing store. I'm just repeating what Adam Sandler said. (Is that ever a legitimate excuse?!) To be fair, all my favorite, most comfortable maternity clothes came from your store. (Well, the ones that didn't come from H&M. Or Target.) When I need more jeans and t-shirts, or next time I'm in 8th grade, I'll be back!
But for now I'm moving on, taking my fashion advice from Adam Sandler.
Monday, July 13, 2015
Dressing for the big game
I've always been a big fan of dressing up for football games.
Painting yourself blue and white is also a good option. Wigs are fun. The fashion options for football games are really quite extensive.
I feel kind of bad for U of U fans. I mean, at BYU, we never coordinate our BYU gear with red pants. But U of U fans go to games with blue pants on, inadvertently supporting the better team--with the better fight song. Go Cougars!
If you're going to wear a grey shirt to a live game, it should be this one:
My fashion theory boils down to this: Wear as much BYU gear as possible. I'm sorry, but there's no other sport and no other team, and that's it.
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| My family believes in my theory as well. That's me in the dark blue shirt, BYU shorts, and BYU visor. My sister's the one in the pink. It's a BYU hat and a BYU 5k shirt, so she is excused. |
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| Winter games add more depth to your team spirit. You better believe I'm wearing about six layers of BYU memorabilia under my coat! |
I feel kind of bad for U of U fans. I mean, at BYU, we never coordinate our BYU gear with red pants. But U of U fans go to games with blue pants on, inadvertently supporting the better team--with the better fight song. Go Cougars!
If there's anyone who knows how to dress for a game, it is the Brazilians. My personal favorite is the guy who has only worn Brazil colors for the last 20 years after Brazil won the World Cup in 1994. (He would also be the world's easiest person to buy presents for.)
But apparently there is more than one school of thought on what some people refer to as "Ballpark Style."
Ballpark STYLE?!? I had no idea....
Stitch Fix put this post on their blog to help people decide what to wear to baseball games this summer. And my eyes were opened. I never really considered the possibility of looking chique AND all team spirity.
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| I think she remembered to look in the mirror before leaving the house, unlike some people who just look in the bottom of the drawer for more BYU memorabilia. |
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| I can get on board with this. I still think at least one (or two) of your shirts should be actual team memorabilia, but I like this idea of looking nice AND spirited. |
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| And this last outfit? Well, you can't win 'em all. |
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